Enneagram Types & Marriage
A great example of what the first few weeks of marriage feels like is season 9 episode 22 of The Office (USA). In this storyline Jim & Pam has been married for a little over 6 years. But the reality of marriage is that these issues Jim & Pam are facing: self-doubt, lack of communication, and pride, are there even in the beginning of marriage. My worst fear is that I won’t be what Drew needs from me, that I’ll disappoint him and not be all that he thought I would be. That when he sees what I truly am, he’ll walk away. But you know what the honest truth is, Drew doesn’t need me. Drew sees me for who I am better than anyone I know does. He picked me to live life with him because I annoy him less than other people, I have boobs, and we have similar beliefs. He loves me for who I am. He and I have to choose each day to pick each other. It’s not easy, there are some days I don’t want to talk it out with him. Some days it feels like there are so many emotions going on in me th...
